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Posted on 06/06/2013
- I am:
- Seeking a:
- Body type:
A few extra pounds
- Living Situation:
- Social Setting:
Side kick, Better in small groups, Comic Relief
- TV Watching:
- Marital Status:
- Have Kids:
Yes - but not at home
- Want (more) kids:
- Employment Status:
$25,000 to $34,999
Christian / Other
- Attend Services:
- Political Views:
I'll tell you later
- Sense of Humor:
Friendly, Clever / Quick Witted, Goofy
Movies, Cooking, Computers / Internet, Playing Music
- In my own words:
I am ok with being independently owned and operated LOL..
hobbies I enjoy are: water skiing, swimming , fishing, Frisbee golf , horse back riding, some air brushing.. I play guitar, ( I have played since I was 12 yr old, been in two local bands ) I play some drums..The last 2 or 3 yrs I have given up the lifestyle of being a musician,
I have started educating and preparing for survival based living.
I am an conspiracy realist... I know it's not a theory. I am not a radical..
It's just my priorities have changed and I feel be prepared is critical , I may not be as prepared as I would like to be, But I take steps and have goals and do have preps.
I am looking for an emotional balanced man, who has or have a desire to work at basic survival preparedness..I hope to find some one that doesn't have anger issue's , insecurities of who they are as a man, or too clingy , emotionally co dependent..
I strive for harmony and peaceful coexistence,,.life is to short to be with some one who wants to fight or argue over pettiness , or control issue's..everything in life is a give and take , and compromise.
I don't expect that there will never be dis agreements , But rules of engagement , and adult.
these are just basics of about me..I don't lie or exaggerate, honest to a fault..
I am peace loving and compromise .
I have morals and ethics.
I am not perfect nor do I expect perfection from my family and friends.
I cook well, and know how to keep a house clean.
Some of my faults , one is I currently have a lower se lf image ( I have always been athletic and had sex appeal ) and in the last 3 years I haven't been able to be as active and have put on a few extra pounds, But nothing that I can't work on and achieve .. I am losing. but I have been less assertive and feeling middle age has caught up with me.. ka sa ra sa ra.
I have made some regrets in my life , But have learned and excepted my accountability,
I don't blame others, though others have helped in bad choices. Just a part of living. and builds character..
I am Leary of anyone who lists all the positives but when asked ? "What are your faults" and they don't know themselves or has the honest to be forth coming and objective, or hasn't the willingness to do their own self work.
I have taken 5+ years off from seeking a serious relationship, Simply because I wanted to heal from all past relationship disappointments , Because I do not want to have to worry about carrying any thing over from the past that consciously or unconsciously that another man might have to deal with..That has been most important.. I want to be as functional and normal as I can..independent but not too independent , I desire a partner , and not challenge the mans role. . I like and want to give and receive affection abundantly,
My mother taught me some old fashion "How to have a happy home and husband"
by making a home free on petty jealousy and insecurities , keeping it clean and comfortable , make well balanced meals and have them ready , and take care of things in the bedroom.
Yes I have done these in my past marriages ( 2), more so now- then in my wreck less youth,
I have had my faults in not doing all of those listed above, and lived to learn the error of not following good advise,
when taken for granted and treated with dis respect and either verbal or physical abuse.
I do stand up for myself, but I BELIEVE IN RULES OF ENGAGEMENT.I still didn't just leave the relationship without feeling I communicated and compromised ..
The story for most of us.. It's a two to make it , and when one doesn't care or love enough. it doesn't matter what you do or try.
WHY? have I gone into so much detail?? Is to hopefully sort who contacts me..
If you know you have domestic abuse history, or have a distrust of women or feel threatened around an independent women , or haven't had the resolve to do your own self work. I am not the gal for you..
If you want a balanced , hard working, affectionate, trust worthy, PARTNER.. then lets talk.
I am not a poser.. I don't pretend to any thing I am not.. what you see is what you get..